Soul Mate Summoning


Before anything else, let me acknowledge this day. Thirty years ago today, I fell in love with Poppa, and Poppa fell in love with me, we are true soul mates. This posting is given in honor of our sacred journey together.

No matter who we are, at some point in our lives, most of us reach a point when we feel that we are ready to find that one true love that will last a lifetime. We’ve even created a term for this elusive person, “our soul mate.”  Some say there is no such person, I strongly disagree.

This “wanting” is only natural. The seeking of a life partner is the way of the human heart.

If you ask any crone witch, she will probably tell you that the most common question she is asked has to do with casting “a love spell”  If she is wise, she will use this query as pathway to a meaningful conversation about the witchly ethics of casting a love spell.

First of all (unless she is one of those charlatans that asks you to send cash for a guaranteed love spell) she will probably tell you that this is a spell that YOU must cast for yourself.  Secondly, if you are consulting with a wise witch, she will encourage you to slow down and think about this impulse before you “DO” anything.

You must know what you want. A soul mate can be a lover, but, a lover is not always a soul mate. Lovers and soul mates are often two very different cats. In magick, one has to be very clear as to exactly what they are seeking. Let me be perfectly clear, I am going to talk here about the kind of love spell that summons a “soul mate” do not confuse these two “cats”

Every witch has her own ways, so, hereafter, I will speak for myself. Personally, I advise against casting love spells with a particular individual in mind. You are swimming in murky water when you intentionally attempt to manipulate another “being” through magick, be careful.  

Don’t be quick to dismiss or to laugh off “magick” as merely an ignorant practice of a superstitious fool. Words and thoughts are “things,” magick is energy, living energy, treat it with respect. When using magick, leave your ego in the broom closet. I have known witches that grew “too big for their ritual robes” (power stricken) and this is not a pretty sight.  It is akin to the old golden rule of “what goes around, comes around” in witchcraft, (as in life) our ill deeds come back to revisit us.  If we are negative, our negativity will come back around, magnified and baring fangs. Remember too, that a spell is a prayer, a whisper to the great Mother, be careful what you ask for, for you surely may get it, therefore, cast in perfect love and in perfect trust, and be wise, cast only after great deliberation.  

Don’t be shallow, don’t put all of your eggs in one basket, a raving beauty, or a well ripped stud man, is not necessarily the one soul that will make you happy, beauty is fleeting, sexual prowess is fleeting.  A soul mate is eternal, perhaps physical attraction is a main ingredient, but surely it is not the only ingredient. Make a list of attributes that are more expansive than appearance alone. Remember, you will want to “talk” with this person! 

I have witnessed magick working for great good, and I have seen the other side of the coin. There is one rule, “Do what you will, and it harm none” Magick is as real as you perceive it to be, before you work your love spell, make sure that you fully understand this one rule. If you wish to control the very will of another human being, you are not ready for the ever yielding give and take of a life-long, loving commitment.

A successful, vigorous “love spell” will require regard for the personal “resolve” of the “other” as its main ingredient. You are seeking a partner, a companion and a lover, not a puppet.

Come to your alter, the good earth, a sandy beach, or a flat rock can serve as your alter, the closer to nature, the better. Come with a clear mind, come with an open heart, and come with an attitude of reverence for nature. You don’t want to bully your energy through, you want to be gracious, after all, you are seeking “The Divine” so, don’t be rude.  Balance your energy, find your power, you don’t want to be feeble. This is why we say that we “practice” magick; it is with experience that we hard-working witches can (sometimes) strike this delicate balance.

Clearly, anyone reading this post is capable of using Google to read up on “love spells,” so I do not feel the need to give recipes here for cooking up a charming little love spell. There are endless possibilities from simple crystal or candle magick to flower and herb charms or the use of personal talismans. If you are merely interested in garden variety love spells, then, my all means, Google away, not everyone is ready for a soul mate, not everyone wants a soul mate. 

First, before anything else, examine your intentions, are they virtuous? Are you seeking this “soul mate” because you feel lonely and empty or because you feel full and overflowing? Are you full of creative wonder and joy, are you so full and overflowing with “good gifts” that you are fervent to share them with another? Only you will know the answer to this. This crone thinks that if you seek love because you are empty, you must take a step back, and consider your life for a long moment.

You may not realize this, but, it is my experience that raw need attracts the needy, emptiness attracts emptiness. You don’t want that, do you? I believe in the law of attraction, so, think about working to become exactly like the person that you are seeking to find.

All good things are worth waiting for. If you are one of those “empty seekers” before casting a love spell designed to summon your one true soul mate, first, you have to get yourself ready, you aren’t ready yet. You must ignite a fire within your spirit.  Postpone your magickal love quest for a few more weeks in order to lay down that most fundamental groundwork that will be essential to the workings of your soul mate love spell.  Do it right, and you will only have to do this once!

Begin to live with focused intention, by this, I mean, do things each day that move you from emptiness to purposefulness. Anything, it doesn’t matter what it is, so long as you do it with commitment and passion. Volunteer your free time to a worthy cause, exercise, create art, read, write, talk to kind strangers, dance, watch comedy, jump in rain puddles, handcraft a quilt, enjoy music, run, play golf, meditate,  if your work takes up your every spare moment, then, do your work with gusto!   (and perhaps you should think about slowing down a little once your soul mate arrives on the scene because your priorities are going to be shifting soon, in order to accommodate all of that love and passion that will be coming your way)

Notice the small things along the path of your life that you would normally ignore. Become thoughtful of what is going on around you, become sensitive, become like a little child, be joyful, wake up, and come to life! Keep track of your observations through journaling, keep a diary and make sure to include the observations of the day that have moved you, or have surprised you, those tiny fragments of your day that were sterling examples of uncommon valor, or rugged beauty, or something deliciously vibrant or genuinely refreshing. Perhaps you observed an act of tender mercy, or you were captivated by the merry laughter of a bouncing baby, write about these images that you do not want to ever forget, or, if you have the skill, you could paint them.  My point is to pluck these scenes out of the garden of life, and allow them to feed your hungry soul, again and again.

Consider the faces of strangers and of friends in a deeper way. Discern the color of everyone’s eyes, are those eyes lit with light, are they wise eyes, are they flat, uninspired eyes, are they warm, inviting eyes, are they interesting, stimulating eyes? Investigate the expressions on the faces of the people in your work place or on the bus, or in line at the market. Are they tired, are they sad, (why?) do they radiate joy, are they looking into your eyes, are you aware of what they see there?

Become aware of what your own face and body are saying to people. Without realizing it, your face and body are telling your secrets, what kind of secrets do you really want to share with the world?

Consider what is authentic and what is not. Observe nature, study flowers and rocks, close your eyes, rest your face on a stone wall, and accept its heat, or it’s cold, graciously. Run your hands over the bark of a tree that you have looked upon for years, but, have never once touched. Take your shoes off and feel the earth beneath your bare feet. Your feet are worthy of gratitude, they have carried you about the earth since they were very small and tender. Become grateful for your health, for your body, for your life exactly as it is. Respect and honor your place upon the earth, accept that there is nothing wrong with you, you are entirely worthy of love, in fact, you are deserving of perfect love. Accept who you are, where you are, how you are, what you are. If you feel that you need to change something about yourself, do it, begin the transformation today. If not, smile and be happy with yourself.  Harvest the ripening day-to-day wonders of your own solitary life.

Do all of these things for five new moons, if you do all of this, for that period of time, you will no longer feel empty inside. You will be bursting with life and you will need to share that spark with another! You won’t be able to keep that kind of pleasure and passion to yourself.

Since you have read this far, let me say, thank you for hanging in there. Now, I am ready to tell you how to cast your perfect soul mate friendly love spell, and now …you are ready to hear me.  If you have read this far, your heart is in it, and, you must have some level of trust in what I am going to say. A fully engaged and willing heart and a heaping measure of trust are the most important characteristics of any magickal love spell.

Personally, unless you are a witch and really know your stuff, (if you are, you probably won’t be reading this) I would forget all manner of “hooey.” One can become so entangled in the form and the tools of their magick, that they lose their magickal intention within the details. We won’t do that.

For the non-witch that wishes to cast a pure and authentic love spell, I would use ONLY your voice, your body, your heart, your mind, and your soul for your essential spell work. There is much to be said for simple elegance in magick. The idea is to be heard, to be understood, to make your simple plea (for a soul mate) by connecting directly to heart of “The Divine,” “The Great Mother,”  “The Goddess,” or “God,” whatever term you embrace with the most devotion, the most intimacy and the most clarity. You are set now to travel to the heart of the Great Mother to find your one true soul mate.

Timing: A thoughtful love spell (like any craft of the heart) is not instantaneous, it takes time.  Take the time, make the effort, and spend the energy. Work with the moon to escalate the power of your spell, let your magick take root, and allow it to grow as the moon grows, join with the forces of nature. Weave and braid your very heartbeat into the heartbeat of the Great Mother. Begin when the moon is new and work to the full moon.

 I would “proclaim” my “love spell” upon each rising, and again, at night, before each slumber. You can work indoors or outdoors, I won’t go into casting a circle, I am writing this as an informal spell for the non-witch individual, for those that wish to formally practice witchcraft, (by the book) there are plenty of opportunities for education and training, that is not what I am doing here.

1)Take a bath, add some aromatic bath salts, soak off the stresses of your life, breath in through your nose, exhale through your mouth, relax, keep breathing, feel the warm water around you, encircling you, be grateful for the pleasant, warm sensation of the water, be grateful for all of the elements. Earth, Air, Water, and Fire. Envision them all, consider them all. Close your eyes connect with them all. 

2) Clearing Your Space: Find a private, serene space, make it your own, clear it, meaning, clean the space of negative energy. Don’t work within a space that you associate with bad feelings or bad memories. You can sprinkle sea salt around this space or you can light a white candle, you can burn incense (like they do in church) but don’t fall asleep with incense or candles burning! You can place clear glass jars with lemons tucked in them in the four corners of the room (if working indoors) for a couple of days prior to your spell work, any or all of the above will suffice, as long as you take possession of your space and make it a sacred place in which you can freely work your magick.  Do some research if you like, find what clearing methods suit your personal tastes.

3)Posture: Raise your hands in the air, wiggle your fingers, use them to direct your energy…plant your bare feet firmly on the floor, center yourself, this will boost the energy of your spell, working nude (sky clad) or clothed, whatever makes you feel more at ease, just be comfortable.

At Last….

Speak aloud the following affirmations: (Feel free to put your own spin on it; this is YOUR love spell after all!)

 

A Soul Mate Love Spell:

 “I am here, find me, in the entire world, there is only one me. I am perfect for you; find me, there is only one you, you are perfect for me, I will find you. I am worthy of your perfect love, you are worthy of my perfect love, we will find one another.

I have this complete love to offer to you, you have complete love to offer me; I am inviting you, I am  invoking you, whoever you are, wherever you are, feel my energy and come into my life. 

With you, I will share my whole self and all that is precious to me. I will bless your life, you will bless my life, I am ready, you are ready, I am worthy, you are worthy, and we are worthy together.

I am here, come to me, you are there, I am coming to you….make yourself known to me, and I will make myself known to you….

“And it harm none, so mote it be.”

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29 responses to “Soul Mate Summoning

  1. Seriously? You call yourself an educated Crone? You must CAPITALIZE the word Crone. AltAr please!!! Alter it to change something. You can alter your AltAr. But you cannot sit before your AltEr, nor can a rock be your AltER. I am not grammar Nazi by any means, but give yourself some credit and give some of it to those of us who do know how to cast magiC properly (no K please, that is NEOPagan, not Trad) and who take life and this path seriously enough to give it and the gods/esses the respect they deserve.

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  2. hello, i recently met someone that i feel so deep within me, and she did too, that we are soul mates. She couldn’t keep herself away, but over time I could actually see in her actions, that she was trying not to like me, and it puzzled me. She was so hurt, but deep down thinks she wants her ex back. i was good with friends, and then she instigated so many things. Would never talk about it, unless it was to remind me that she had already told me we were to be friends first.

    Jump, she has a circle of people surrounding her, “friends” and family, that just aren’t good people, the influence is horrible. Just observing the stories of her brother sleeping with her ex-girlfriend, to her sister also sleeping with another one, to her favorite person her aunt making out with a woman she liked. she’s surrounded by ugly, and she has no idea who to be.

    Jump
    we would look at each other and everything stopped, everyone that happened to see us go through it noticed it, i could give names and numbers. while around a group of weird, trashy energy giving “friends” of hers i saw quite a good number of people watching us, some saw our connection and it was clear they didn’t like it, thats how i felt. I could, but wont go into detail. She’s basically surrounded by people that ‘want’ her. She happens to be physically beautiful, more so inside…until now, she’s showing some cold stuff.
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    she started pushing herself back, staying away, down to being ill physically, to not seeing me. I knew then and feel now that she, down deep, doesn’t want this hell i’m living to happen, but. So she flipped finally, and cut me out. I panicked, it went from awesome days to within weeks nothing. I called a psychic. here is my thing, this woman told me that she couldn’t tell me to let this go because it was too beautiful, a soul mate connection, that it would be wrong to say don’t. Do people just say that to others for cash? She said that my no longer my friend has been hurt so badly by family and friends that she’s very unsure and struggling in life, its so true. She said that my old friend has felt like no one has ever really listened to her, but me, and maybe only me. That she knows i am a soul mate. Now, I thought, maybe think her ex called, or these ‘friends’…her nearest and dearest. She also said the my ex friend, her friends are being evil by instigating her to end this (and in ways that she has done despicable things to me because of them, I did’t ask what) because they don’t want her to have this, jealous. Ok, I saw that.
    how can i contend with that? she cut me out.
    Do people really say this stuff for money? I hope not. I don’t want to know.

    she told me stuff, light Crystal Journey love candles, what a coincidence the name. I feel I don’t have the right energy to be lighting those candles, and she told me stuff i knew, and i have faith in this, but I hurt so badly, and its not me making her go, its her. what about feeling so strongly about this woman’s actions towards me that I cannot tell her she’s been wrong by all of it?

    I was going to try to wait it out. But, I read this, I LOVED EVERY WORD!
    I am so grateful to have found this, thank you!

    Confussed

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  3. This is exactly the way I pray for my mate, my twin, my partner to find me. In What ever form, come, I am waiting for you.
    So happy to find this validated by you!

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  4. I am so in love with my soulmate, an he constantly says how he loves me. Our circumstances had kept us apart. But after reading this affirmation I felt the power behind it so strong. I will be coming back on here soon telling you all about wedding. It will happen an soon. Thank you so much an I truly believe this will happen. Thank you! (Smiling)

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  5. Hi, my name is mia there is this guy who lives in england and we talk about 3 times a week but i want become more than friends what should i do?

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  6. I’m recently divorced and thought the man I had married was my soulmate turned out not to be the story. I recently bought a spell book and did a soulmate spell myself, I’m a believer that if you put the energy out there things will happen for you. I’m not lonley or unhappy I just feel that something is missing in my life. I came across you and your website and instantly felt good vibes from you. I was just wound eating if you could think of me and send good energy, I’m 37 and have been through lots of turmoil at such a young age. Just want a new story a good story for myself. Thank you

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  7. Dear gods! You’re right! I never took the law if attraction into account. No wonder all my love spells have brought me misery. Thank you so much for opening my eyes!

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  9. I have a friend and I want to become more than friends. We live in different states and see each other about once a year. What can I do to make this happen?

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  10. My Name is Karen from Houston, Texas. i am hear to give testimony on how i got back my husband back, we got married for more than 8 years and have gotten two kids. thing were going well with us and we were always happy. Until one day my husband started to behave in a way i could not understand, i was very confused by the way he treat me and the kids. Later that month he did not come again and he called me that he want a divorce, I asked him what have i done wrong to deserve this from him, all he said was that he want a divorce and that he hates me and do not want to see me again in his life. I was fed up and was confused of what to do,i was sick for more than 3 weeks because of this issue of divorce. i love him so much he was everything to me without him my life is incomplete. i told my cousin and she told me to contact a spell caster in west Africa. i had no choice than to contact DR. ZAZA SPECIALIST for the return of my husband to me, he told me that my husband have been taken by another woman that she casted a spell on him that is why he hates me and also want us to divorce. He then told me that they have to cast a spell on my husband and that will make him return to me and the kids, they casted the spell on him and after 3 days my husband called me
    and he told me that i should forgive him, he started to apologize on phone telling me he still loves me and agreed it was on spell and that was what made him left me. it was the spell that Dr Zaza specialist casted on him that made us continue to leave as one happy family up till date.

    thank you once again the great Dr. Zaza specialist for what you have done for me, if you are out there passing through any of this problems listed below, kindly contact him:

    (1) If you want your ex back.
    (2) if you always have bad dreams.
    (3) You want to be promoted at your place of work.
    (4) If you want a child.
    (5) You want to be rich.
    (6) If you need financial assistance (loan or others)
    (7) How you been scammed and you want to recover you lost money or properties? Contact him via email: drzazaspecialist@gmail.com

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  11. My Name is Karen from Houston, Texas. i am hear to give testimony of how i got back my husband, we got married for more than 8 years and have gotten two kids. thing were going well with us and we were always happy. Until one day my husband started to behave in a way i could not understand, i was very confused by the way he treat me and the kids. Later that month he did not come again and he called me that he want a divorce, I asked him what have i done wrong to deserve this from him, all he said was that he want a divorce and that he hates me and do not want to see me again in his life. I was fed up and was confused of what to do,i was sick for more than 3 weeks because of the issue of divorce. i love him so much he was everything to me without him my life is incomplete. i told my cousin and she told me to contact a spell caster in west Africa. i had no choice than to contact DR. ZAZA SPECIALIST for the return of my husband to me, he told me that my husband have been taken by another woman that she cast a spell on him that is why he hates me and also want us to divorce. He then told me that they have to cast a spell on him that will make him return to me and the kids, they cast the spell and after 3 days my husband called me
    and he told me that i should forgive him, he started to apologize on phone telling me he still loves me and agreed he was on spell and that was what made him left me. it was the spell that Dr Zaza specialist casted on him that made us continue to leave as one happy family up till date.

    then you won’t believe this when I contacted him, thank you once again the great Dr. Zaza specialist for what you have done for me, if you are out there passing through any of this problems listed below:

    (1) If you want your ex back.
    (2) if you always have bad dreams.
    (3) You want to be promoted in your office.
    (4) If you want a child.
    (5) You want to be rich.
    (6) If you need financial assistance.
    (7) How you been scammed and you want to recover you lost money or properties? Contact him via email: drzazaspecialist@gmail.com

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  12. I have come seeking from curiosity, and out of excitement. I am a hedgewitch, I’ve focused on using food to bring joy and healing to others. I am not very experienced anywhere else.
    I’ve been having real dreams and having wonderful conversations with a man I feel is my soulmate. I’m deliberating on casting a spell, I so much want to meet this person and cook for him. (Nutty, I know) what do you think of casting a summoning as a sort of “here I am!” Beacon?

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  13. I have come seeking from curiosity, and out of excitement. I was born into a witch family, but my mother sheltered me from wicca in an effort to protect me from some of the unpleasantness of prejudice. However I came to it on my own after having an arhum

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  14. Hi!
    I just wanted to thank you for your clear words, and to be so giving. I can see what a true witch is like: a good, caring and loving person. That’s you!

    I hope you have found your love or will soon.
    Thank you and many blessings

    Susana
    (Portugal)

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  15. Fantastic post! I like your thinking, gentle white witch Sheila! Lol! And I like the ending you share…”A soul mate love spell”…I love it so much that I wish I could copy it…but no, no stress, I won’t do that…I have too much respect for the author’s right…amazing how all your thought go hand in hand with what I believe in. I had the impression for a while that I was reading…me! Now I understand why your father is so proud of his ”Loving witch of the West”! Big hugs to you Ralphie…

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  16. When you say to ‘proclaim’ your love spell upon each rising and again at night, do you mean you have to preform the spell over again each time, or just resite the spell casually?

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